Stop talking crap about the refugee crisis.

I’m getting so tired of reading ill informed opinions on the refugee crisis. People who live in a land of diversity and tolerance acting if they really understand persecution. My news feed is full of comments which are either racist or completely uninformed.

Here are a few that have got my goat this week.

We should be looking after our soldiers first before anyone else.

Ok part of this is right, we should always be looking after our soldiers. Supplying them with the right kit to keep them safe, caring for them when they return. None of this is wrong but before anyone else? Tell me again how many of our soldiers have laid down their lives to fight against the persecution of others? They fight to protect the lives of their fellow man. I’ve never seen a solider ask to check the ethnicity or religion before he stands to protect someone. I think people do our armed force members a great disservice when they write this crap.

Our hospitals are struggling already we don’t need to add any more pressure. 

True our NHS is struggling but this is due to underfunding by the prat that runs our country. Cameron would rather invest millions in a defunct defence system than actually saving the people he pretends to want to defend. If money was invested where it should be there wouldn’t be a struggle within the NHS.

They aren’t English so why should we help them?

This one really makes me sick, I am proud of my English heritage but we are all actually citizens of Earth.

Where you were born should never effect the value of your life.

We are all human, well someone better check all the Tories just in case.

The new one I’ve read this week is that the whole refugee crisis is a plan of ISIS to get it’s soldiers into our country. 

First off maybe it is but let’s be honest it’s not a very good one. When we count the number of people who have died as they have fled the country. Secondly propaganda wise this sucks the treatment and violence that have forced this people to flee the country doesn’t make many think, oh yes those ISIS peeps have got it right and lastly how the hell can this be a undercover plan it’s not as if these people are entering our country under the radar. As for ISIS recruiting the refugees, Errmm tell me again who they are fleeing.

Seriously this has to stop, I am one of the first to say we need to start fighting for better treatment of our soldiers, for better support for our disabled, the poor, the homeless but it doesn’t have to be one or the other.

I truly don’t know the in’s and outs of this crisis nor will I probably know all the details of the next.  I truly don’t know what has driven these people to risk their lives and the lives of their children.

Yet what I do know is this,

Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them, humanity cannot survive.

Dalai Lama XIV

Always

I am a mom that had to bury a child.

Yes I am that mom.

But I’m also a mom who was so very blessed.

I thank God every day that I got to be Olivia’s mom.

That I got to walk her journey with her.

Caring for this beautiful girl changed my life.

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I learned so much.

I learned about true love.

 

It’s not easy losing a child.

Wow what an understatement.

It’s so not easy 

I always will have a part of me missing.

Yet I would do it all again.

It a heartbeat.

 

Walk those hospital corridors

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Wait those endless hours for appointments

Fill those never ending prescriptions.

 

When you become a mother you take on many roles.

Carer,

Protector,

Teacher

 

When you have a special needs child these roles extend

 

Nurse,

Chemist,

Advocate

Fighter 

 

At times it feels like each day holds a new battle.

And yes we do get battle weary

But our children are always worth the fight.

always

Epilepsy awareness day

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Today is Epilepsy awareness day, a day where people across the world, share,educate and inform people about this condition.

I am too aware of epilepsy as it was condition that Livvy suffered from severely. A condition that played a big part in her death.

Livvy suffered from uncontrollable seizures, one time we counted over 106 in a day. We tried many medications and fought hard not to let them to control her life.

Lets just say it was an ongoing war,one which sometimes we won the battle other times we lost.

Epilepsy can be scary for both the one having the seizure and the one watching.

Epilepsy is also surrounded by myths, not that long ago sufferers were accused of being demons. Thankfully times have changed but still the need for awareness is there.

So I ask you today to click this link and learn more about this condition.

Standing Together

I hate war, I hate the fact that people have to fight, people have to get injured,and mostly i hate that people have to die.

Yet while I hate war I understand that at times war is the only answer, that fighting is the only way to protect the human rights of people and to ensure the liberty of others.

So today as a country we remember the brave men and woman who fight in these present wars and the ones that have passed.

Who put themselves, their lives on the line fighting for freedom.

Today we stand together united in remembrance.

Today I pray for the many soldiers who bravely fight for this country.

Today I pray that they will all return home to the loved ones waiting for them.

Today we honour them.

Lest we never forget.

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Remembrance Day

Today is the eleventh day of the eleventh month and in fact it’s also the eleventh year of the 21st century. Yet although the numbers 11.11.11 are special today is more so as it is Remembrance Day.

It was at this time on this day in 1918 that the First world war came to an official end. So many had perished in those four awful years as they served their country fighting for our freedom.

So to never forgot those brave men on the same day in 1919 the first two minutes silence was held. Two minutes for us to stand and to show our respect and to honour the fallen. To say we will never forget those who lost their lives, those who were injured and all those who were affected by the devastation of the war.

Ninety two years on from that first anniversary we stand in remembrance not only for those lost in WW1 or WW2 but for the sacrifices made by many still in the ongoing conflicts around the world.

Each day men and woman put their lives on the line in the pursuit of freedom and safety for us all.

So today I wear my poppy with pride and at 11am I will stand in silence praying for the safe return of our soldiers and in thanks to the ones that have gone before us.

Never forget.

If you would like to learn more about remembrance day please check out the Royal British Legion and maybe find it in your heart to support their worthy cause.

May God bring them all home safe.

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