True love

Our love isn’t found in the three simple words “I love you”
It’s your actions that makes my heart beat to the lovers drum.

The way you care with all you are.
No only when it’s easy but even more so when it’s hard.

The world is full of red roses and flowers but true love isn’t found in these things.

It’s the fresh cup of coffee you leave quietly for me each morning as you wake to the children.

It’s the popping out to the shop when you are tired and just want to relax.

It’s the way you raise your daughters, with so much love and understanding.

Taxi service and cash point with only a little scowl.


True love is staying quiet when you know i’m being unfair.

Or when you simply haven’t a clue what started my rage.

Listening to the same old worries because i’m struggling to reach a decision.

Or listen to the same old stories because I’m simply harping on.


Loving is when its too hard,

When your heart is broken and your soul is screaming no more.

Finding the strength to be brave when I cannot.

Holding me night after night as I cry into the early hours.

Watching my missing as you ache also.


True love is painting my toe nails on a ward full of laughing nurses.

Of holding my hair as I vomit into the toilet bowl.

Of changing hundreds of dirty bums without more than the occassional moan.

The acceptance of the being the porta loo changer even though I had said we would share.


True love is loving me before i knew how to love myself.

Teaching me that promises do get kept.

Of being my constant in a world that keeps changing.


True Love is you my dear husband.

From that first bar room meeting nearly 20 years ago.

You have been my everything.


Happy Valentine’s Dear Alan.

Heres to a lifetime of me driving you slowly insane.

My friend, my lover, my heart.

I love you, today, tomorrow, forever. xxxx

valentines alan and i






My Valentine

No words could describe the depth of my love for you.

You are my soul mate.

When I look at what life has thrown at us in the last years, I know I have only survived through your love and my faith.

You are my complete opposite and I love that.

When I am passionate heading into situations heart first, head second you are they to remind me that slow and steady wins the race.

I’m in heaven surrounded by learning and books. You would rather switch off your brain watching random television programmes. I love it when I ask you “why are you watching that” and you answer with simply “why not”.

Your compassion has no bounds; your love for children is never ending.

Yet you cringe inside when someone tells you how good you are.

Your kindness when I am ill is like no other. I ask you why you care for me; you simply answer “I love you”.

Live is for living you say, worrying is overrated.

You deal with things when they happen so unlike me who like to plan and colour code my endless worries.

I’m remember our first date like it was yesterday, never had I felt so relaxed in someone’s company. I talked for hours (nothing new) you listened like I was only one in the whole world.

It’s been lovely to watch you grow in confidence the last few years building your business, your knowledge. Even though I don’t show it often enough I am so proud of you.

I love the way you discuss financial matters and talk about savings as you are ordering your new RC Car ha ha.

The way you know you have to correct the girls but hate having to scold or punish them.

Yet I also see your pain when they act out and hurt you.

Often you say “no one warned us about this part of parenting”. Yet you would fight to the death for any of your babies, I’ve watched you scream, cry with frustration but you have never given up.

My heart still skips a beat when you smile at me.

My skin still tingles when you hold me close.

I miss you when we are apart.

You complete me.

I don’t know what the future holds for us but I do know that I will be by your side.

Today you are my valentine

Forever My husband

Always my true love.

My Valentine

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