I wasn’t sure I was going to write this year, I was thinking, wondering if I should let the day go past without remembrance. Yet I knew it would be a lie, a falsehood because pretending that this anniversary doesn’t exist doesn’t make it so. In fact the pretence builds its power giving it more control.
Eight years, eight long years of missing my beautiful daughter.
Eight years since I held her last in my arms.
Eight years since I heard her sweet giggle.
Yet the truth is that grief and love, they walk hand in hand. Without one you would not get the other.
So I’ve decided today that I’m not going to hide away.
I’m going to immerse myself in all that was Olivia,
That is Olivia.
I’m going to remember her sweet little ways, her cheeky character, her strength of spirit.
And I’m going to give thanks
Thanks that even now in the midst of grief, I am so thankful that I got love.
I am one incredibly blessed woman that I was lucky enough to have this child call me mom.
That whilst nine years will never be enough they were such a gift.
My beautiful girl I wonder if you really knew how you changed my life. How you opened my eyes into a world of innocence and honesty. How living one day with you would often seem like a lifetime. You taught me so much, you challenged me, to embrace each moment, to celebrate each breathe.
Many can travel this life without really knowing their destination, their purpose. You young lady gave me mine, you made it crystal clear what was expected from me, I’m still hearing your instructions from heaven.
Be kind for kindness sake
Be thankful for all things
Stand up for what matters
Be the voice of the voiceless
And never ever be afraid to say yes to love.
We are not all promised forever but knowing you are loved is a lifetime gift.
Thank you for being one of my greatest gifts.
My beautiful daughter
My inspiring Livvy.
Until I get to hold you again, love you girlie xxx